How to play For the Girls Official Rules
Hey girl hey. Welcome to your guide for the night. The first thing we want to stress is that this is a JUDGEMENT-FREE zone.
We’re all a little freaky, so let your guard down and roll your sleeves up because y’all are in for a wild night…now grab a seat at the table because it’s time to get messy…
- 100 Truth or Dare Cards
- 100 Never Have I Ever Cards
- 100 Cards
- 100 Best of the Best Cards
- 100 Most Likely To Cards
- 1 Die
Shuffle each of the 5 decks separately and place them in the center within everyone’s reach.
Whoever has most Instagram followers goes first, rolling the die. Each side of the die shows a color that matches the category of cards from the 5 decks.
Whichever side of the die lands face-up, take the top card from that deck (i.e. if the die lands on the pink side, take the top card from the pink “Truth or Dare” deck).
The player who picks up the card must read it out loud to the group. Then she must immediately perform whatever command or action is described on the card.
Some commands involve just that individual player, some require the whole group’s participation (see card breakdown for more details).
The player to her left then rolls the die and play continues as such.
Player’s Choice: if the die lands on black, the player can choose a card from whichever category she wants.
In this game, cards equal points. Whoever has the most cards at the end wins. Easy. Breezy. Beautiful.
Truth – Answer truthfully and keep the card. If the question is too savage for you to answer, put the card at the bottom of the stack.
Dare – Perform the dare and keep the card. If you’re just getting warmed up or are embarrassed for some reason, put the card at the bottom of the stack.
If you HAVE done the thing, keep the card. If you haven’t, put it at the bottom of the stack.
Quickly name something within the category. The person to your left then names something else, and so on. The first player to hesitate (more than 5 seconds), repeat an answer, or otherwise, she is out. Keep playing until one person is left. That person keeps the card.
GIVE the card to whichever player it best describes.
Example: If the card reads, “Who is the worst cook?” give the card to the player who can’t boil a pot of water without burning the house down.
GIVE the card to whichever player is most likely to do that thing.
Example: If the card is, “MLT cut her own bangs” and Isabel is definitely the most likely to cut her own bangs, give Isabel the card and then have an intervention because that is never okay.
End of the Game
Keep playing until your Uber is outside or until someone collects 25 cards.
At the end of the game, whoever has the most cards is the winner and should be treated like an absolute queen for the remainder of the night. Slay, girl.
How to Play a Girl Who is Playing You and Win Her Over Totally
So are you looking for how to play a girl who is playing you and come out the winner? Or let’s say you are looking for how to convince her to sleep with you, but she is leading you on with just the hope of tasting her hole.
Imagine how hurtful it would be for a girl to play you . The worst is when she eventually dumps your ass. Not only would she laugh at you, but she’ll also share her success with family and friends. As you already know the nature of women, you’ll be the topic of every conversation. They’ll be like, “Catherine played that crumby dude,” and the one girl in their midst who does not know what you look like will get a complete description of you immediately. Even if she has never met you in person, the story will make it appear so.
In a situation like this, you need to watch out and act fast before she goes too far. You must quickly figure out how to play a girl who is playing you and also, you must be mindful and be good at how to spot a female player because not all the funny actions from her entail that you are being played. This, in turn, calls for answers to questions like, “Am I being played by her?”
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How to Know When a Girl is Playing You
Tips for how to spot a female player should be something you must know. I will make that for you as you read down. Concerning the cheap ways on how to play a girl who is playing you, worry no more, it is time to beat her ass like a pro.
I will make it easier for you by using an instance that occurred between a female player and I. She thought she was good, but man, she was messing with a specialist and a pro.
She later admitted being the victim, and now, she’s a close friend of mine. This is how unexpected events and times bind people. I will also use her real name, and if she eventually comes across this, she’d just laugh so hard.
So, Adele Oliver; her real name, happens to roadwork at the same days and spots where I stage to exert my muscles a bit. This is how it went;
Roadwork Day 1
We did not know each other, but we began roadwork from the same spot.
Day 2 (two days after)
The same spot again, and I could not keep it to myself any longer. I decided to question her, and she was responded nicely. So lovely that anyone on the street could mistake us for lovers.
Still the same spot! At this point, I wondered whether Adele Oliver was spying on me. I felt she thought the same too. We coursed ourselves on the same route and discussed as we hopped. It was here that I got to know Adele better and that she just moved into the residence.
We met again, this time, it was a planned meeting, and we exchanged our mobile contacts. During this period, the thoughts that she may want to mess with me did not come to mind, and so, I never cared to question myself thus; “am I being played by her?”
The lucky-meeting days ended when I left for a nearby town. But I was able to chat up with Adele.
I noticed she was becoming friendly. One day, she began our chat with “runaway love.” When I came online, I refused to open the message so that she won’t get the ‘read’ notification. The next day, I put my mobile data back on and messaged Adele Oliver thus; “Lol, you can have me at any time.” Immediately, she replied with, “Then come back!”
It should interest you to know that I fell for this at first. The way Adele struck me with her choice of words for the chat was catchy.
I wouldn’t blame myself for having fallen at first because we weren’t talking in person. I would have studied her mood because I’m good at how to spot a female player.
How I realized the Girl was Playing Me
After the business, I dropped back into town. I phoned to inform Adele Oliver of my arrival, and we set a date for our next roadwork. The day finally came, and we met. This time, it wasn’t for the jogging and all, it was just to meet and talk to a “runaway love” like she teased me. We had a pretty good time all through. This went on for days, and a day came when I invited her over. This is where I realized that a game is ongoing.
She missed coming over, and she did just two things;
- Adele claimed her aunt so severely needed her to do an unspecified something for her
- She summed up that on her way back, she forgot her PC and that she would be using it that night.
The mistake made!
- She was telling me that she forgot her PC!
- Secondly, she once complained that no reason could make use a PC at night; it affects her eyes
I played in as a sweet innocent guy and let her have her way. At this point, I figured out that she is just a cat waking a lion. But I still asked myself, “am I being played by her, Adele Oliver?” I almost allowed my emotions to lead me astray into believing that she was just real.
Did you notice how I figured out that she was playing? Now, that was more like;
The Skills you need to Spot a Female Player!
I need not say much because there are only two ways of all the ways you’ll find online that can help you on how to spot a female player, and the forms are ‘attentiveness’ and ‘emotion control.’
Using these two ways, you can determine virtually everything you need on how to spot a female player.
Had I not been attentive to Adele’s excuse when I asked her to turn up, I’d just end up as one of her God knows what, maybe errand dog. You know too well that women manipulate you to serve and worship them blindly. Being attentive makes it 70x tricky for any girl to pull more stunts on you because they already realize that you are not one of those guys that will give in easily without making it evident to them that you know what’s up.
2. Emotion Control
In case you do not know, a girl’s first appeal to your emotion will make you drown. It is okay to give into what she has for you in the beginning but not when you eventually forget to question yourself with stuff like, “am I being played?”, “Is she a player? If must know, shouldn’t I sort out how to spot a player?”
These were the things I allowed to play in my mind after I met in person with Adele upon my return to town. If you don’t control your emotions early enough, you will drown when the waves come.
Winning Her Like a Boss
Winning a girl player all dies down to your manner of approach and technique. Even after knowing specific techniques, you could still fumble. This is because such methods do not work and do not mean she can’t be played. Not to worry, there are better ways to deal with the situation. How to play a girl who is playing you requires a little bit of focus and mastery if you are going to win her like a boss.
Trust me; there is no girl player out there that is not playable. There may be difficulty in playing an adept male player, but for female, it is likened to deceiving babies. Depending on your mastery level, you could eclipse a female player with a wink.
This leads us into yet another question, a question of how to play a girl who is playing you. In the section above, we saw the two magic ways that help on how to spot a female player, and now, we will look at how to play a girl who is playing you.
How to Play a Girl Who is Playing You
Back to Adele Oliver, I did not require too many resources to turn her games against her. I needed to do just four things.
1. Timely Flirting
“Am I being played by her” should no longer be the question. If it remains a question within you, I’m sorry, you are self-belching. She wants an errand dog who tends to feel that the love is there for him, so, signing up to be some little girl’s errand dog? I hope not.Flirting with other girls
You would be told by others to make her jealous, but no guide on how to go about with such is provided. Making your self-acclaimed playgirl jealous is one hurtful way for them to realize that you’re repelling. The one way to make her jealous is to flirt.
Flirt even in her presence. Apart from a direct flirt in her presence, there is one more way you could tell her. You could hurt her by giving out free compliments to girls on the street while strolling with her. For instance, you could comment on the dress of every girl you come across on the way. If you want her to be madder, ask if she owns any of the clothes you’re complimenting. She may just laugh it off or confess that you’re annoying.
I did a connived flirt in front of Adele. This is the part that hurt her most that day until I disclosed it to her later on.
We were going to sit out in an open space downtown. I happened to know a girl around, and so I explained to her that I want to hurt someone. I told her how I intend doing it, and she accepted just for me to win.
Some minutes later, she walked down to where I sat with Adele, and I tapped her ass and complimented with, “Gosh, shit is dope.” Adele starred at me almost drooling.
2. Become Stingy
She wants to get everything from you while playing you. She may close down your bank account if she gets the chance! You know how much girls love-givers and you know how much they hate stingy men.
This is because they always want to take rather than give. How to play a girl who is playing you is by being stingy. It hurts them; and if care is not taken, she might resort to calling you names.
Better to be seen as a ‘bad market’ than a ‘daft punk.’
Girls? they never lack names to label you once things don’t go their way.
3. Request for Things
Oh wait, a player she is, and a ‘played’ you are. I’m laughing out loud because that’s what she’ll be thinking. This is one of the skills I used to turn the table against Adele. I gave her no chance of asking, and instead, I was the asker.
You are not a beggar so don’t you dare think so. Besides, why is she not labeled a beggar when she asks? See? It is a 50/50 affair. If she asks and I don’t have, I will ask her to do it for me.
Dude, I am giving you the real deal on how to play a girl who is playing you. Forget about being told to put on gentleness. Blast gentleness and high levels, it does not work when someone is trying to mess you around.
This is a secret method and a weapon. It lies here for patient readers, but you may not quite get it if you skipped any line above. I have tried this on girls who try to friend-zone, and it worked. I even tried it while playing games, and it did work out too.
All this method does is to fluctuate the consciousness of any girl in question. I do not want to write big on this, so I’ll just summarize that this method is all about making her feel that you love her now and then having her aware that you probably detest her in the next moment.
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How Parents Pick the Sports Their Daughters Play
Girls today grow up in a world with an unprecedented set of educational and professional opportunities. More of them will graduate from college and earn advanced degrees than ever before, and all professions are open to them. Although the activities of girls and boys have converged over time, there are still distinctive paths for each sex, and many children’s activities are still associated with particular aspects of feminine or masculine identity.
How do parents of girls navigate this often-difficult terrain? To answer this question, I’ll focus on 38 families I met and interviewed who have at least one elementary school-age daughter currently involved in competitive chess, dance, or soccer. These families are a subset of the 95 families I met while researching Playing to Win: Raising Children in a Competitive Culture. Over the course of 16 months I interviewed nearly 200 parents, children, and teachers/coaches involved with these competitive after-school activities in six different organizations, three in the suburbs and three in an urban setting. While boys were also part of the larger study, what I found about girls and competition was especially intriguing for what it says about who these young women might grow up to become.
Unlike masculinity, multiple forms of femininity are seen as acceptable by parents and by children, so it’s not surprising that different gender scripts emerged for each of the three activities. The names of these different gender scripts—”graceful,” “aggressive,” and “pink”—all came from language used by parents of girls in interviews. They help us understand how parents choose among different activities for their daughters.
When talking about why dance is good for their daughters, moms highlighted dance’s ability to help their girls be graceful. One dance mom told me that dance produces good posture, which contributes to a more graceful appearance: “There are kids that you see in the studio and they walk in gracefully; there’s just something about the way they hold themselves. If it gets her better posture then I’ve achieved something. But you know, if I see her slouched over, then I think, ‘Well she’s not pulling the whole dance experience with her through life.'”
Producing a graceful body also means producing a feminine body. Another mom explained, “When I started Brittany in dance I thought about grace, flexibility, and posture. A girl should be feminine and, you know, like refined … And for girls I think it is good for them to have a little bit of that grace that you get from dance.”
Even with their daughters still in elementary school, some of the mothers made an explicit connection between the importance of having a graceful body and attracting male attention. This mom explained how dance can help her daughter in the future: “It builds coordination, it builds confidence and I don’t think there’s anything worse than a girl that’s in her teens that can’t dance. You know? If nothing else, just knowing how to dance is important [at a school dance].” Dance has long been associated with preparing girls for various aspects of society life, such as etiquette and social grace, usually implicit attempts to increase one’s chances on the marriage market.
However, the mothers I studied who promote this graceful girls gender script not only select dance for their daughters; they also promote a competitive dance experience. In this setting, how you look can help you be a more successful competitor. Additionally, the overlay of competition adds the other crucial element to the graceful girls script—which applies to both physical and emotional comportment—and that is being graceful in interactions at competitions.
One mother, also a dance teacher, described her favorite dance competition:
I think StarProducers is a wonderful competition … Everyone is welcomed backstage. People say, “Hi, how are you? Good luck. I love your outfit. Your hair looks great! Oh, don’t you look pretty?!” Even with the youngest dancers they did this, which really gives them a boost backstage, and 99 percent of the studios that went there were also the same way. Everyone would say, “Good job. Good luck on stage.” It is just a very supportive atmosphere and they made sure to include everybody in the awards, even though it is an adjudicated system where more than one person can win gold or silver or whatever. Everybody got some- thing and they gave out special awards to groups that maybe didn’t win the platinum or the high score … Maybe their costumes weren’t custom or the greatest, or whatever, but they did focus on, for example, “Wow, that group had really great smiles,” and they got a special award for that.
This quote captures the two ways in which graceful girls learn how to compete in a feminine way. First, in this competitive environment where competitors are being judged based on their talent, how the girls look plays a part. Costumes, hairstyles, and even smiles are complimented and may be a way to win special recognition. Girls learn that their feminine appearance is part of the evaluation and can earn its own reward, beyond the talent they have practiced. Second, girls also are expected to support their competitors. Wishing a competitor good luck, cheering for her, or telling her that she looks nice are seen as desirable in this competitive environment. Being supportive, traditionally seen as a feminine attribute, is also a way to demonstrate social graces. So the graceful girls are graceful both physically and socially.
That said, dance parents and teachers strive to emphasize that competitive dance is a serious physical activity that should be thought of as having the same legitimacy as team sports. Comparisons to sport actually helped establish dance competitions, at least in terms of the way parents viewed the value of participating. Following the model of a competitive athletic activity helped establish the competitive dance model by appealing to parents who wanted their girls to be athletes and learn to be more competitive, while still being feminine in terms of appearance and attitude.
Overall the “graceful girls” strategy teaches girls that they need to be feminine, which means being graceful, looking good, and being supportive of competitors. While competitive dance does infuse dance, a traditionally feminine activity, with competition, it still keeps that competition indirect for girls. Yes, that competition can be fierce both between rival dance studios and within dance studios, as you might see on Lifetime’s Dance Moms, but that show is purposely extreme, and you still see the girls supporting and cheering for one another. The dance girls I met do not get in the face of their competitors, as do the aggressive soccer girls, instead honing relational skills and their appearance, which are traditionally associated with femininity.
While the graceful girls are taught to be kind competitors and value appearance, the aggressive girls are taught to be both physically and competitively forceful, actively subsuming aspects of their femininity. Many soccer parents define their daughters in opposition to those “girly girls” who dance. They employ the “aggressive girls” gender script when selecting competitive soccer for their daughters.
One father, whose older son plays travel soccer and whose seven-year-old daughter is already a member of a training academy team, captures the core elements of the aggressive girls gender script: de-emphasizing physical femininity, focusing on future career opportunities, and cultivating a winning attitude. He is concerned that his daughter has a tendency to be too feminine and not aggressive enough:
I encourage her to be more aggressive because she’s a cute little girl, but I don’t like her to be a girly girl … You know, I don’t want her to be a cheerleader—nothing against that—but I want her to prepare to have the option, if she wants to be an executive in a company, that she can play on that turf. And if she’s kind of a girly girl, maybe she’ll be a secretary. [Pause] There’s nothing wrong with that, but let her have the option of doing something else if she wants.
This dad clearly thinks that being a “girly girl” subjects a girl to less desirable occupations, which are seen as traditionally feminine, like being a secretary. The images this father evokes related to being an executive, such as “play on that turf,” suggests the importance that he places on athletics to help his daughter follow a selective, historically male career path. In addition, he identifies cheerleading—which has much in common with competitive dance—as being too much of a girly girl activity.
As the no-girly-girls soccer father suggested, many parents think being cutthroat and aggressive sets girls on a particular path, perhaps to the corner office as a company executive. In fact, every parent with a soccer-playing daughter I spoke with used the words aggressive or assertive in his or her interview. The focus on de-emphasizing appearance, evidenced by the fact that soccer girls wear androgynous uniforms and take off all of their jewelry, is especially important in this career race, as many parents know that being ladylike will not cut it in certain corner-office professions.
This mom of a nine-year-old soccer girl said, “We have no illusions that our daughter is going to be a great athlete. But the team element [is important]. I worked for Morgan Stanley for ten years, and I interviewed applicants, and that ability to work on a team was a crucial part of our hiring process. So it’s a skill that comes into play much later. It’s not just about ball skills or hand-eye coordination.” This same mom went on to explain, “When I was interviewing [job candidates] at Morgan Stanley, if I got a female candidate—because it’s banking and you need to be aggressive, you need to be tough—if she played, like, ice hockey, done. My daughter’s playing, and I’m just a big believer in kids learning to be confidently aggressive, and I think that plays out in life assertiveness.”
As this quote suggests, being part of a team and being assertive are other skills aggressive girls can learn from competitive sports like soccer. Another mom powerfully explained, “I think when you play a sport, I think it teaches you assertiveness, because you can’t just wait for the ball to come to you. You have to go for that ball.”
Going after balls by getting in head-to-head match-ups and emerging as the only winner is definitely a different competitive experience than dance. One of the moms I met from dance has two daughters who do the dance team, one of whom also plays soccer for their local travel club. She sees a difference in how parents behave at the different competitive events, and this behavior seems to map on to the different gender scripts they are employing while raising their daughters. She told me, “Other parents [at soccer games] tell their kids to be aggressive and push. They just act inappropriately and their mouths are swearing throughout soccer [games]. Not so much in dance!”
These aggressive and assertive girls are being raised to be women who will go after physical and metaphorical balls and tackle difficult and challenging environments throughout their lives. They are taught to be aggressive in various aspects of their lives, but without an emphasis on appearance, unlike the graceful girls in dance. Chess presents a slightly different picture; chess-playing girls able to focus on their feminine appearance and be aggressive at the same time, if they so choose.
Pink Warrior Girls
Like soccer girls, chess girls are encouraged to be aggressive. But this aggression is slightly different because chess is not a physical game. Unlike dance and soccer, chess is a primarily a mental competition, so physical femininity is not an issue at competitive events. With the lack of physicality, the femininity associated with chess is more inclusive. Chess promotes a hybrid gender script for the small group of girls who participate. These girls learn to be aggressive, but they also can focus on a feminine appearance if they so choose.
Chess allows girls to be what one mother of two sons described to me as a “pink girl”: “These girls have princess T-shirts on. [They have] rhinestones and bows in their hair—and they beat boys. And the boys come out completely deflated. That’s the kind of thing I think is so funny. That girl Carolyn, I call her the killer chess player. She has bows in her hair, wears dresses, everything is pink, Barbie backpack, and she plays killer chess.”
That a winning girl can look so feminine has an especially strong effect on boys, and their parents. A chess mom described how a father reacted negatively when his son lost to her daughter: “The father came out and was shocked. He said, ‘You let a girl beat you!'”
Most of the chess girls I met are not “pink girls” in the sense that they don’t dress exactly like Carolyn. But in chess there is the chance to be both aggressive, like a warrior, and girly, embracing pink. The pink warrior gender script allows girls to be aggressive and assertive but still act in a normatively feminine way—if they want to do so.
For people affiliated with scholastic chess, it matters that the game is not physical. For example, when I spoke with Susan Polgar—the first female Grandmaster, a leading advocate for girls in chess, and an author on gender and chess—she said the fact that chess is not a physical game is important in its promoting gender equality: “Well, I think girls need to understand that, yes, they have equal potential to boys. I think that chess is a wonderful tool as an intellectual activity, where girls can prove that unlike in physical sports, because by nature maybe boys are stronger or faster, in chess women can prove equal.”
Many parents actively use chess as a way to teach girls that they should have similar opportunities as boys. A chess mom explained, “We’re raising her … to be feminist. And so she says she wants to be a Grandmaster or the president [of the United States]. She doesn’t have any ideas about gender limitations and I think that’s a good thing.”
Despite its not being a physical game, there are more similarities between soccer and chess than between dance and chess because of the focus on aggression. With their head-to-head competitive match-ups, both chess and soccer are closer to hegemonic masculinity, hence the warrior component to the chess gender script. Those who write about chess often focus on this aggression and what it means for women. In the book Chess Bitch: Women in the Ultimate Intellectual Sport, the author Jennifer Shahade, herself a chess master, explains that in chess the common epithet “playing like a girl” actually means playing with a lot of aggression.
Despite, or perhaps because of, this aggression, girls are a distinct minority in scholastic chess. More elementary school-age girls participate in tournaments than at any other age, but they are far less than half the number of participants in coed tournaments. This is a problem that organizers seek to address by offering “girls only” tournaments, giving separate awards to the highest achieving girl and boy, and maintaining separate top-rating lists for girls and boys. Some feel this approach is negative, only reinforcing the feeling that girls can never be as good as boys, and advocate against it, but many of the parents I met feel that the additional attention and success can keep girls involved.
Classes in Femininity
The graceful, aggressive, and pink warrior girl scripts generally vary by class, just as the class background of the majority of the families in each activity varies. Through these competitive activities we can see classed forms of femininity. Though nearly all of the families are part of the broadly defined middle class, parents higher up in the class hierarchy of the middle class promote a more aggressive femininity, and we see this in both soccer and chess families. Dance mothers, who generally have lower status (based on educational attainment and income) than the chess and soccer parents, promote a femininity that is less competitively aggressive and prioritizes physical appearance. Middle- and lower-middle-class and working-class families place a greater emphasis on femininity. Working-class and lower-middle-class women have occupations that are typically more “front stage,” “pink collar,” and involve emotion work, like being secretaries, which require a focus on feminine traits such as friendliness and cleanliness. Girls who are raised in these families are being taught that they will likely need to use their femininity in their future occupations; however, these occupations may be more competitive than they were in the past, which is why competitive dance is a useful socialization activity in these families.
Thinking in terms of occupations highlights parental occupations, in addition to parental aspirations for their children’s occupations. Recall the soccer father who wants his daughter to be able to play on the turf of corporate executives and not be a secretary, and the soccer mother who previously worked at Morgan Stanley. The former is a lawyer, and the latter was an investment banker who recently stopped working to spend more time with her five children. Both of these parents attended elite universities as undergraduates. Most of the soccer parents had similar occupations or were professors or doctors. In short, these are parents who are highly credentialed and who have been through competitive credentialing processes themselves.
Upper-middle-class girls are being prepared much more strategically to help maintain their family’s class position by entering what are traditionally hegemonically male worlds. This includes choosing after school activities that will give these girls an advantage in college admissions. Today there are three times more female soccer players than Girl Scouts in the United States. The comparison to the traditionally female activity of Girl Scouts is indicative of the shift to using sports like soccer to train girls to succeed in the future. Those with strong financial, social, and cultural resources—associated with upper-middle-class families—are more likely to have access to and focus on travel and elite competitive experiences.
In contrast, the dance moms did not discuss future careers for their daughters that require lots of credentials and higher education. Some mentioned the possibility that their daughters would become a doctor or lawyer, and nearly all expect their daughters to attend college, even those who seriously consider a professional dance career for their daughters. But these moms routinely mentioned teaching as a career goal, while none of the soccer parents did—even the soccer mother who was herself a high school teacher. Being a dance teacher was specifically mentioned by several mothers, which has less status than teaching in a scholastic setting (because it does not require a licensing exam).
Despite more opportunities than ever for girls today, different environments constrain and transform gender roles. We can see this in competitive afterschool activities for children. Gender and class are being reproduced in these competitive activities, which will likely impact who ends up in that corner office and who ends up as the boss’s assistant.
This post is adapted from Hilary Levey Friedman’s Playing to Win: Raising Children in a Competitive Culture.
Girls Playing in Boys Teams – Play by the Rules
The issue of girls and boys wanting to play in each other’s teams may arise occasionally. This isn’t a concern when children are young, but it can become more complex as players approach adolescence and differences in physiology and ability begin to emerge.
Information to help you understand the issue
- Generally girls and boys prefer to play in same sex teams.
- Some girls want to compete with boys (and vice versa), especially if there is not an equivalent same sex team available.
- Girls and boys do play in mixed teams, particularly when sports are modified or a team could not otherwise be fielded.
- Age and gender are not always good indicators of ability e.g., there are strong, agile girls and weak, poorly coordinated boys and vice versa.
- Each situation is different and there are no easy answers.
Australian women’s cricket captain Jodie Fields and BMX world champion Caroline Buchanan are among many elite female athletes who had to “mix it up with the boys” in their formative years because there was no girls’ competition in their respective sports.
Would they still have reached elite levels if clubs had turned them away?
The debate doesn’t just hinge on whether the next crop of female “stars” has access to appropriate competition. Many sports advocates believe that even at a grassroots level, mixed training and competition can foster mutual respect; improve both boys’ and girls’ social skills; enhance resilience; and provide experiences that will help them in their broader lives.
When they are of primary school age it is not uncommon for girls to play in boys’ teams. Yet when girls enter their secondary years, questions are often asked about their physiological make up compared with male participants.
When weighing up the situation, there can be no “one size fits all” solution. Age and gender are not always the best indicators of ability. Each case needs to be considered on its merits.
In deliberating whether a girl should play in a boys’ team, parents, administrators and coaches all need to assess a number of factors.
Parents need to weigh up not only their child’s physiological capabilities, but her motivation for playing, skill level, competitiveness, and whether there is support from within the club. They also need to know how to support their child’s confidence and resilience in the face of any direct or indirect criticism.
Coaches need to foster and encourage the skills that girls need to play and ensure they get as many opportunities as boys. This includes managing safety issues for all participants and making fair decisions on selection.
Administrators need to be open-minded. A good point to start from is to explore ways to support a girl’s participation before making any decision. Administrators must also understand that preventing a girl playing in a boys’ team may be discriminatory. However there is no definitive answer with courts making different rulings over the years.
Although the law allows for sports to have separate teams, if you prevent a girl playing in a boy’s team (and vice versa) it may be unlawful discrimination. The area is not clear cut and has been tested in court with different results.
To explore some of the issues associated with having girls playing with boys, read and listen to the interactive scenario. The scenario also includes links to interviews with an Australian and New Zealand Sports Law Association lawyer discussing clubs’ duty of care and what clubs should consider when deciding whether to allow a girl to play on a boys’ team.
Do boys and girls play differently? Why?
I want my three year old to play with lots of different toys, but she just wants dolls all the time. What can I do to encourage her to try something different?
Have you ever walked past a nursery or primary school at break time and noticed how children play? If you have, you may have spotted how girls tend sit huddled in a small crowd chatting or playing hand games, while boys will be running the length and breadth of the playground, chasing each other and generally being noisy.
This is because boys and girls play differently. And when it comes to toys, their choices are distinct too. Studies have shown that girls are more likely to choose dolls and soft toys, while a boy will be more interested in cars and building blocks.
It’s a cultural thing
Part of the reason for this is down to gender stereotyping from a young age. Parents who know they are expecting a girl are more likely to paint the nursery pink or blue for a boy. But however neutral they decide to be, society will treat them differently regardless. Look at how toy manufacturers target certain toys at one gender or the other by the colour and type of packaging. Boys’ toys will often be associated with ‘adventure’, while girls’ will be inadvertently encouraged to be nurturing or ‘crafty’.
Karen Pierce, who has three children aged eight, six and three years, recalls how her mother-in-law refused to buy her eldest son a dolls’ house when he was a toddler “because the packaging was pink, and therefore for girls”.
“It made me really cross, as there was no reason why Nathan shouldn’t have enjoyed playing with a dolls’ house,” Karen said. “It was what he wanted and asked for. I don’t know what she thought the implications would be of him playing with one. It was baffling.
“In the end we bought it ourselves and he was thrilled. We just wanted him to have as wide a range of toys as possible so he could explore the world around him.”
Nature vs nuture
However, it’s not all to do with toys and merchandising. Research has shown that nature plays a part too and there are innate hormonal, neurological and physical differences between the sexes that manifest early on. The hormones they experience in utero may play a part, experts believe. They have noticed, for example, that from birth, girls show more interest in people and faces than boys do. This might explain girls playing with dolls and teddies, and boys with trucks or trains.
Parents are also more likely to allow boys to take risks and will encourage rough-and-tumble in their play, while they will try to protect girls from getting hurt.
Girls have been found to have more pronounced language skills and tend to talk earlier than boys, which means they participate in games than involve role-play and make-believe more than boys. This may also explain why girls enjoy one to one time with a friend, while boys are more likely to prefer to play in a bigger group.
Young males, on the other hand, are born with more muscle mass which might be why they’re more physically active. They also have better mechanical and spatial skills, which will drive their interest in building blocks and cars.
Simon Baron-Cohen, Professor of Developmental Psychopathology at Cambridge University has studied the differences between male and female brains. He says that girls’ and boys’ brains are “wired” differently with females more predisposed to empathy and being sensitive to others. This is why girls are more likely to chat or do role-play with girls, while boys will prefer rougher play. However, he adds, these rules don’t apply across the board and individual children may react differently.
So what should parents do?
Experts suggest that parents give their children as wide a range of playing experiences as possible, to allow them to challenge themselves, find out what they enjoy and are good at and so give more learning opportunities. Parents can be good role models too. Mums can encourage their girls to do more physical activity by showing that they exercise themselves, while offering a boy a stuffed toy to cuddle will show him he can be kind and nurturing, just like his Daddy.
Written for the Pre-school Learning Alliance by Dorothy Lepkowska.
Do boys and girls play differently?
It may sound like stereotyping, but many parents notice dramatic differences between girls and boys. Is your little boy fixated by anything with wheels while his sister couldn’t care less about trucks and cars? Does your little girl play quietly with her friends while her brother and his friends crash around the house like a herd of baby elephants? So, is it down to nature or nurture?
Are there boy toys and girl toys?
Girls and boys may actually be born with a preference for dolls or cars, according to one experiment with male and female monkeys in 2002, when psychologists Dr Gerianne Alexander and Professor Melissa Hines discovered that male vervet monkeys preferred playing with a car and a ball rather than a doll and a pot. Female monkeys showed the opposite preferences, but the male and female monkeys both spent around the same amount of time playing with ‘gender neutral’ toys, such as a book and a toy dog.
“Our findings suggest that what defines ‘boy toys’ and ‘girl toys’ is not dictated by society but may be due to visual cues that attract boys and girls in different ways,” says Dr Alexander. Her theory is that males may have evolved an attraction to objects that encourage movement and activity because they offer opportunities for rough, active play. This could be related to the needs and activities of early man, such as hunting for food and finding a mate.
“When Will was a baby, he played with Caitlin’s toys and we didn’t have any boyish toys, such as trucks or trains, in the house,” says Sandy, 31, mum to Caitlin, 4, and Will, 3. “Then, when Will was 8 months, we went to a friend’s house where there were two boys, and Will was beside himself when he spotted a box full of cars! Somehow he seemed naturally drawn to toys with wheels – and they’re still his favourites now.”
“Since turning 2, Fin has gravitated towards boys’ things. He’s Lego-mad, plus he has a boxful of cars. Lola, though, gets bored with Lego, preferring to play with her dolls, and when Fin’s at pre-school she plays quiet make-believe games,” says Nikki, 37, mum to Fin, 4, and Lola, 2.
“Lola plays on our emotions, and is very dramatic when we tell her off, but Fin just gets upset then gets over it. He’s more noisy and competitive, too, always having to be the first out of the bath!”
Do boys and girls prefer different colours?
Whether your newborn wears a pink, blue or white babygrow is down to you as a parent.
But, by the age of 3 or 4 years, gender differences in colour preferences are firmly established, with more girls wearing clothes that are coloured pink or pale yellow and boys tending to prefer darker colours.
“I deliberately avoided dressing Amber in pink when she was a baby,” says Alison, 34, mum to Amber, 5. “But once she started nursery, pink was the only colour she wanted to wear.”
Some scientific evidence suggests gender differences exist in the make-up of our eyes, which may mean female babies are actually more sensitive to pinks, reds and yellow.
Another theory is that a natural preference for pink might have developed in females over time for survival purposes. Dr Anya Hurlbert, who led a study at the University of Newcastle, found that women in their 20s prefer reddish colours. “Evolution may have driven females to prefer reddish colours – reddish fruits and healthy, reddish faces,” she suggests.
The different ways boys and girls play
As well as preferring different toys, boys and girls play differently, too. Boys often enjoy rough-and-tumble, while girls are quicker at learning to co-operate and opt for less competitive activities involving mutual support.
“Studies show that when children play with big plastic cars, more little boys play the ramming game,” says Simon Baron-Cohen, Professor of Developmental Psychopathology at Cambridge University, in his research into the difference between male and female brains. “Boys deliberately drive their cars into another child. Little girls ride around more carefully, avoiding each other.”
Professor Baron-Cohen proposes that ‘male’ and ‘female’ brains are wired differently, with ‘female’ brains being more predisposed to empathy (making them more sensitive to others – and therefore less likely to crash into them!) and ‘male’ brains being wired for are the main influences on toddlers’ colour choice.
However, warns Professor Baron-Cohen, these ‘male’ or ‘female’ brain characteristics can’t be assumed to apply to all individual boys or girls.
Taking risks – is it down to gender or personality?
Boys are often perceived as being more risk-taking than girls. There’s some evidence to suggest this continues as children grow into adulthood.
Studies have revealed that taking risks is more linked to personality than gender, with about 60% of all infants being attracted by risk-taking and 40% being naturally more cautious. So, why is risky behaviour seen more in boys? The answer may lie with parents, who are more likely to tolerate adventurous behaviour from boys than from girls, thereby influencing their tot’s openness to risk-taking as they grow up.
How to teach a girl to play games ?: Alex Swan | Pub
Despite the fact that every day more and more girls throw a ladle dirty from borscht into the sink and go to climb the mountain peaks of Skyrim, many gamer guys still have the problem of their girls’ irritable reactions to computer games.
Immediately I must warn you that this post will not help everyone. Girls are very different, and each approach must be selected individually. However, for the general case of guys-gamers with ordinary spherical girls in a vacuum, what is written here may be useful.
To begin with, you should pick up the so-called factor of interest – a hook, a hook on which to “hook” your girlfriend. In general, several groups of such interests can be distinguished.
This group is quite extensive and can contain many of the most dissimilar games. Start with the subgroups: the games she played herself and the games her father or older brother played. It is best to find out about the first from her herself, but about the second it is best to inquire directly from her father or brother, if there is such an opportunity.
If your relationship is in accordance with the rules of the law, then all the games in this group will be quite old and rather dumb compared to the games of today. Therefore, if you yourself are a Newfag with a love of graphics, get ready to cry and bury Vizine in your red, sore eyes.
As an example, I will cite my headman – her father spent (and, frankly, still spends) an infinite amount of time in the first Fallout. I can’t say that she has a wild love for these games, but a certain set of nostalgic pleasant memories she has when looking at them.The second Diablo has a similar effect on her.
Another classmate of mine spent hours of her childhood killing whores in the GTA, and now, in the hours of sadness, she installs it and … Well, she continues to crush them, in fact.
For me, Prehistorik 2 is my childhood game, because it was on creepy blinking computers in our computer science class at school. And I still go through only one and a half of the first levels.
Just invite her to remember her childhood or ask if she wants to know what happened next or what happened in general.
No matter what anyone says, everyone wants to plunge into the world of their favorite books and stay there longer. And games are one of those things that can provide this opportunity.
It should be noted here that the vast majority of games based on books are a rare squalor. For example, there is a game based on the series of books “Tanya Grotter”, which may have been read by many in their teens. And it is terrible, terrible, like an atomic war that never changes. Or, for example, there is a browser game based on the excellent Secret City book series.And she’s also terrible. In general, before offering the game to your girlfriend, go through it yourself, or at least read the reviews and ratings. An excellent choice for this category will be games about Sherlock Holmes, about Harry Potter (only the first three, only the first three !!), games about the Lord of the Rings universe, and, of course, The Witcher.
Separately in this group are games based on comics and games based on films. And if there are a great many of the former, including very suitable ones, then the latter will have to be looked for and checked for compliance with at least some standards.The problem is that not all girls are interested in comics at all, much less read them. Although, perhaps, the many films and TV series that have been released in recent years will be quite enough.
There are, of course, a great many games with a good storyline. Here in this group I’m talking about not very long games (1-2 days of play, preferably one) with a really exciting storyline.
In order for the method to work as it should, you need to convince the girl that games are the same films, only more interesting.You are supposed to play, and the girl should be seated next to her in a comfortable position in a comfortable chair, possibly with popcorn. For this kind of demonstration, games such as Bioshock (best of all the latter), Remember me and, of course, a huge variety of different quests for every taste (from the classic Syberia to the wonderful brainchilds of TellTale Games) are suitable.
An important point: it becomes completely uninteresting to watch if the time that you spend on the next shootout or the search for the necessary quest item is much longer than the time for which a little more plot is given.If you are confident, then you can disregard my advice, but best of all, complete the game before you show it to the girl. For the quest, it will be enough to view the passage.
Another important point: it is possible that excitement will wake up in your girlfriend, and she will root for you in shootouts, scolding those who kill you with curses, or together with you she will try to solve another riddle in the quest. And it will be really great. But still, perhaps not worth the risk.
The reason I started playing Dota 2 is the Shagbark courier.Motivation “Well look, what a cutie he is, how can a game with such a cutie be bad?” proved to be much more effective than endless assurances of the fun and complexity of this game.
Just show your girlfriend something from the games, and if for the next “something” she says “Ooh” and smiles, it’s time to try. First of all, pay attention to indie games, among them there are a huge number of magically drawn samples.
Try showing her Botanicula, Bastion, Ori and the Blind Forest and others.
Here you can also take out wow-games that look so beautiful that your girlfriend will simply stick in her and stay stupid side by side while you play.
If your girlfriend loves to tickle her nerves, then this group is perfect for you. The rules are, in general, the same as for a group of games that attract a plot. You play, the girl is sitting next to you, she is interested and scared. It is best to play at night in an empty apartment with good sound. But if you get stuck and dull, she will become uninteresting, and she will fall asleep, and you will be scared alone.For example, you can show her Amnesia, Outlast and Alan Wake.
What to do if your girlfriend is already interested in the world of computer games and asks you what to try to play? Rejoice, but not too loudly, because she is a girl, which means she can easily change her mind. Anyway, here’s a list of the default games that most girls generally enjoy:
- The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim
- Mass Effect
- Assassin’s Creed
- Dragon Age
Of course, there are girls for whom it is best to spend the whole evening at the muzzle of a machine gun in CS or endlessly click with the mouse in Dota 2.There are girls for whom there is nothing more pleasant than the pixelated corridors of Dungeon Keeper. There are girls who go crazy with American McGee’s Alice. After all, there is always the Sims. And there are girls who will never approach computers at all. But there is hope.
How to make a girl play PS with you? Hopefully, everything written will help you attract your girlfriend to play on your favorite console.
Rule 1. Arouse interest!
Well, first of all, try to get her interested in the game: don’t force her to play, but just show her how fun it is with your personal example. Second, consider her personality. I don’t want to impose my opinion on this, but if your girl is emo, then Guitar Hero or Rock Band will suit her, if the girl is cheerful and cheerful, she will surely like the game Rub-a-dub (control of a bath with ducks).Don’t give her complicated games right away. She is unlikely to ever want to pick up a joystick after playing Dead Space. Your best bet is to search the Playstation Store for games that are cheaper and easier to learn than the Blue-Ray versions.
Below I will present several lists for different types of girls. Don’t take division too literally and generally look at it with humor.
Emo Girl (in the same category you can include Goths, Punks, Rockers, etc. according to the situation)
4.Bionic Commando Rearmed
Your girlfriend is always cheerful, funny and cheerful
2.Pixel Junk Monsters
Your girlfriend is a nerd or a computer freak (of course, she may already be a gamer, but there are some interesting games for those too)
4.The Eye of Judgment
5.The Elder Scrolls 4: Oblivion
Your Girlfriend is an Athlete
1.3 on 3 NHL Arcade
2. Burnout Paradise
3. Hot Shots Golf: Out of Bounds
5. Fight Night
Your Hippie Girl
3. LocoRoco Cocoreccho
4. Lumines Supernova
Your girlfriend loves puzzles, backgammon, scrabbles and other similar games
2. Buzz! (almost out in Russian)
4. The Orange Box: Portal
5. Go! Puzzle
Rule 2. Play Together
Try to play with her a little. Just don’t give her a joystick, including Resistance with the words “let’s go, I’ll tell you what’s like…” along the way.They will kill her every 5 seconds and in just a couple of minutes everything will be over and the controller will fly exactly in your direction. Choose a simpler game, preferably familiar to you. Explain to her how to play, help, but do not overdo it – do it only when necessary. There is no need to assume her future mistakes for her, saying, for example, “you will press the wrong place now, let me tell you how to do it.” In the end, let her make mistakes and only then rush to the rescue. And don’t scold her for mistakes – just laugh together.Here are some games that are fun for two to play.
1. Pixel Junk Monsters
2. Bionic Commando Rearmed
4. Monster Hunter (PSP)
5. Magic Ball
Rule 3. Don’t force
If one day you just walk up and say you want to play with her, then most likely you will hear a refusal. Try to get her interested and make her want to play a game with you. Here are some arguments that will make her give in to you:
1.This will bring us closer
2. We can have fun
3. I want to offer you something new
4. I want to spend more time with you (everyone loves it!)
5. I bought something especially for you, thought that you would like it (well, how can you refuse)
Rule 4. Make concessions (fair to anything)
You can offer to play video games with you in exchange for some of her desire, for example, to take a walk with her dog or go on a picnic with her friends.
Rule 5. Lose her
Do you play Tekken? – don’t hit her non-stop, especially if she doesn’t even know how to defend herself. The best thing is to blow her a couple of games. Just don’t play all the time to do something nice – the girls are not that stupid after all! There are several games that can be played without her noticing the catch:
1. Hot Shots Golf
4. 3 on 3 NHL Arcade
5. Magic Ball
games do you play with your girlfriend?
How to flirt with a girl: best tips
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💋 How to flirt with girls
Girls, girls, girls! Aren’t they amazing creatures? But how do you show them your interest without being intrusive or weird?
This is called flirting, you know? And I’m here to show you how. If you have no idea about flirting, you’ve come to the right place. But don’t be nervous: this is much easier than you think.
🤔 What is flirting?
Flirting is an attempt to bond with someone in an erotic way.This attempt appears to be optional.
Flirting is like a game or dance in which a certain amount of sexual tension is created without stepping on another person’s toes.
Flirting, if you like, just shows your interest in the other person. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that as long as you don’t bother the other person.
In principle, there are dozens of ways to flirt, but they can be broken down into the following points:
- Through eye contact
- Via actions
- Through calls
🙋 How to flirt with a girl
Flirting is essentially a gender-neutral process.There are no major differences between the sexes. However, the biggest problem is that the man is usually the more active part and gets closer to the woman.
This may annoy you right now. Aren’t we living in a world of emancipation? However, without leaving the political ground, it must be said that in the world of flirting, everything has remained relatively conservative.
Some women approach men and are the driving force behind flirting, but for the most part everything is very similar to the previous states.So be brave, young Padawan!
Before you jump into battle and start attacking women, we need to learn some of the basics that will make you more successful. Most are (hopefully) for granted.
Take care of your body
It’s not so much about looking perfect as a marble statue (which is usually fine too, but not necessarily), but about what it radiates.
Be sure to adopt Healthy and Male Posture . Shoulders back, chest out, belly pulled in, feet should be shoulder-width apart, head up and eyes fixed on the horizon, not the ground. – You’ve probably heard this countless times. Don’t stand like the greatest macho, just be confident. Even if it is not, this position will slightly improve the situation.
You should also pay attention to your body language. ** You not can communicate not ! ** Your body sends signals all the time. Do not cross your arms or legs when talking to the woman you are interested in, do not turn away from _no_ legs or body.Otherwise, you are subconsciously signaling failure. Try to signal openness with your body.
And, of course, there is nothing wrong with sports! This will not only improve your appearance, but it will also make you feel better. Eat a healthy diet and take care of your body.
Be confident or work on your confidence. You are not born a shy person. It is simply the result of your upbringing and varied life experiences.
How do you signal or increase self-confidence?
- Know your strengths and weaknesses
- Hold on who you are
- Have your own opinion
- Make decisions and lead
- Acknowledge Errors
- Maintain eye contact with people you are talking to
- Step out of your comfort zone regularly and try new things!
- Have the courage to talk to strangers
- Demand respect and draw red lines that cannot be crossed
- Accept people as they are
If you stick to these tips, your confidence will surely increase!
Do your best and stand out
Those who look good are usually more successful.Not only in women, but also in life. So what if you are an ugly duckling?
First of all, I have to get rid of one thing: You are not ugly. As a rule, everyone has something beautiful and something less beautiful. This is normal, it is human. Regardless of whether you are fat or thin, tall or short, you have a big crooked nose or you don’t have a finger: you are you, and that’s good. The most important thing is charisma and confidence. Smile and people around you will smile too.
Even if you don’t want to believe the last paragraph, you are. Most often we are told how ugly we are, but from a purely objective point of view, hardly anyone is not beautiful . As I said before, smiling can make you a hundred times more attractive.
Nevertheless, it is possible and necessary to make the most of what is given to them. Get a new haircut, feel free to try something more unusual. Dress up trendy, a little funky if you like. Don’t think about what people might think of you, just make sure you like your clothes! You can also ask honest friends for advice.I’m sure they’ll be happy to help.
This tip goes hand in hand with the last point. Just be careful not to become a litter. If they sense you ten meters upwind, they are unlikely to want to flirt with you.
- Take a good shower at least once a day
- Brush your teeth twice a day – flossing won’t hurt too
- Use deodorant and perfume as needed, but don’t overdo it.
- Put on fresh clothes
- Comb your hair, trim your beard regularly and keep your nails short and clean.Struvelpeter was a very unattractive guy
Now that we’ve covered the last few points and you’re sexy, it’s time to feel that too. Radiate that you feel good, that you are an attractive and sexy being. Don’t be afraid to look at women (not look at them) and, above all, look into her eyes. Once this is done, smile.
And even if you tell yourself that you are not sexy, once you feel it, you radiate it, and others will automatically find you more attractive.
You must defend your interests and hobbies. If you are a strange bird, you are a strange bird! This is completely normal. Anyone who wants to tell you otherwise should say goodbye to you. You don’t need this negativity in your life. Nobody does!
If now you have to argue that the last points do not correspond to your self, that is nonsense. You don’t change your personality by becoming more attractive.
Anyone who exudes positive emotions will also experience positive emotions.Become a little more optimistic, don’t get bogged down in self-pity, laugh a lot, and be happy. Have fun in life!
Also stay away from people who are negative and demeaning. Everyone is responsible for their own salvation.
Be passionate and have a sense of humor
If you have a life of your own and are passionate about your hobbies, that’s great. Women love men who have a passion for which they are willing to do anything. It is best to do something that you enjoy, such as building or creating something.So there is always something to talk about when needed.
Just have fun with life and pull yourself out of your hole if you’re stuck in it right now.
This is also very useful if you are a fun-loving guy. You don’t need to know hundreds of jokes and keep joking. It is enough if you know how to laugh at yourself and do not spoil the mood. In other words, be who you like.
Now things are getting serious: getting flirtatious.But flirting is not science. Don’t forget flirting is a game! This should be fun.
Flirting consists of subtle nuances that distinguish it from ordinary conversation or action. But the most exciting thing about it is when you’re not sure if you’re flirting with you or not. Often a cheeky smile is a light flirtation or pitch change!
Many of these tips depend in part on the situation or whether you know the person. Choose the ones that are appropriate for your situation.
Where are you flirting?
Basically everywhere.Flirt with the cashier at the grocery store, with a colleague in front of the coffee maker, or with a hairdresser while she cuts your hair.
Better to speak honestly with this person and not try to pretend to be someone else. Say, for example, that you thought she was cute and that you need to talk to her.
Remain calm and at ease, do not be tough. Don’t forget this is fun. It’s not the end of the world if you screw something up or she’s not interested.
Be kind and smile
If you come in contact with a friendly smile and maintain an open posture, usually nothing can go wrong.
Make eye contact
The best indicator that one person is interested in another is prolonged eye contact, especially when smiling.
But even when you are talking to a person or listening to him, you must look him in the eye. Don’t look like a bastard, just look confidently in the mirror of your soul.
Separate it from the group if necessary.
This moment depends on where you meet her. For example, if you bump into her in a bar and she’s hanging out with a lot of people, it will be much easier if you can somehow lure her out of the group or talk to her as soon as she does it herself.
If all this doesn’t work, bite the bullet and meet up with the group.
Let’s say a girl you are interested in – let’s call her girl A – is out with a few friends.Now refer to B or C as if you were interested in one and not A. Girl A wonders what you dislike about her and will try to please you. After a while, engage her in conversation.
In general, you should always include other group members in your conversation! Thus, you will not be so much an attacker as a group candidate.
Another technique you can use is the so called “mirroring” .When we find someone we like, we often unconsciously reflect their movements and posture. At the same time, we subconsciously find people who we like best. For example. you reach for the drink two seconds after she drank from her glass. Or she scratches her forehead and you do the same after a few seconds.
Just don’t overdo it and make it too flashy. Let it look natural and not reflect every little thing.
Communicate well and ask questions
Especially if the flirting has been going on for a while, it’s important that you have great conversations.She should feel incredibly comfortable with you and remember you well even after a few weeks.
But how have you got a great conversation? This is best described as a game of tennis, with everyone returning something. So tell interesting or funny anecdotes, but also give her ample opportunity to speak up. Either way, it’s best to listen carefully and not talk too much. Keep asking clarifying questions. Usually that’s how she’s having fun.
Does she like to paint? Ask why she likes it so much or who inspires her the most. But stay away from superficial questions. She must have heard the question of how long she draws a dozen times.
Remember the little details she tells you too!
If you need topics and do not know what to talk about, skip to this point: Topics for conversation with a girl
Make physical contact
You probably have no idea how important physical contact is, especially when flirting! Quickly touching your shoulder or lower back as you let it through the door is great.Touch harmless places.
Imagine that this is the most natural thing in the world, you touch with it . This way you connect very quickly and show a certain dominance and confidence.
Just do not overdo it and do not caress them! If you find that she doesn’t like your touch, take a step back.
Tease her and taste the ambiguity
Teasing someone with love is as much a game as flirting itself, if not part of it.If you do not know how to do this, skip to the point below: How to tease a girl
Ambiguity is also very good for flirting. However, not all women will answer the same way. This may even bother some. So check the water first.
If she responds to an ambiguous statement by laughing or playing along, chances are good that you will be interested in her.
Be a gentleman
If she behaves well, be charming, gentleman.However, don’t let yourself be repelled. If she becomes cocky or rebellious, stay calm and don’t get into it. For example, you can use your father’s tone and say: “Young lady, if you don’t behave, you won’t get a pony for Christmas!”
At first I will refrain from compliments. The reason is that you don’t know the person yet and can only compliment him superficially. There are very few of them.
It can also rob you of your flirting charm.Because as soon as you compliment her, she usually realizes that you are flirting with her. While she is in uncertainty, this usually increases interest tremendously.
However, if you do not want to refuse a compliment, give it an honest compliment, regardless of physical characteristics. So don’t tell her how beautiful you think her body or her eyes are (women hear the latter all the time), but rather that you think her jacket or dreadlocks are cool.In this way, you praise the conscious decisions that women make, that which is part of their personality.
Get her number
If the flirting is going well and you have not met the girl yet, then you need to somehow keep in touch with her. Of course, this works best if you swap numbers. Don’t be afraid to ask. If you don’t, you will only get upset about yourself later.
You can also follow each other on social media if you like.
After you get her number, you should plan a date!
Always leave them wanting more
Most of the time, you don’t want to leave when things are at their peak. But believe me, there is something magical about this moment. This goes for dates, but also when you talk to each other at the bar. Because if you break that excitement, she will want that good feeling back as soon as possible! Otherwise, it will only fade away.Most likely, people will remember the last moments with the person. So leave when everything is great. Leave her wanting more!
What to look for
Of course, there are some things to look out for when flirting. You can quickly do something wrong.
How do you know if she’s flirting?
This is the whole point. Often times, you don’t even know someone is flirting if you’re not careful.
Many women were usually brought up to be polite and kind.However, it also means that many men mistake friendliness for flirting. If she smiles at you, this does not mean that she is also interested in you. Move forward carefully by following the tips above. If she gets into it, it’s safe to say that she’s flirting with you too.
However, some people are a little awkward when flirting and, for example, get a little angry, even if they just wanted to tease you, or they are incredibly shy. Then it is very easy to misinterpret something.
Don’t be too fast
This is advice you should definitely heed. Step on the brakes and take your time. Just because she smiled at you doesn’t mean that she wants to hug you or share the bed with you. Often, as they say, women are just friendly and don’t even try to flirt with you.
So proceed slowly, but still show confidence. Once you realize that she is not interested, leave her alone.
Don’t be a braggart
Better try to impress with your actions or casually mention something you are proud of.Modesty is a virtue that is very attractive to women. Bragging is a cry of recognition, it seems pathetic and unattractive.
Don’t be assertive
If you find that she is not interested, leave her alone. Persecuting women is not stupid.
Don’t interpret it too much
Since, as mentioned above, sometimes things can be misunderstood, you should not go too deep into her actions and statements.I know women can be confusing. However, expect clearer signals.
Fit“too pretty” women too
Don’t be afraid to approach women you think don’t belong in your league. They, in particular, are often not addressed at all, and they do not even know how “beautiful” they are. It’s better to play too high than too low.
Do not be afraid of pauses when there is no short speech.If you’re pushing yourself too hard, you’re probably just saying something stupid. As long as you are not embarrassed that you do not speak for a minute.
Do not place them on a pedestal
This is possibly one of the biggest mistakes men can make. As soon as they see a woman they like, they become holans and do whatever they want for her. They are trying, so to speak, to “buy” a woman’s love through submissive behavior. But this is completely wrong.
Stay at eye level.Both of you are equally important and overcome each other. Treat her like a person, not like a deity you worship.
Do not be discouraged by the rejection
Take when she’s not interested. Don’t get discouraged and move on. Don’t be a defiant little kid, be the person who can handle failure.
Practice, practice, practice
Flirt often and have fun! This is how you train. There is nothing wrong. And at some point you will really like it, and you will become a master at it!
😅 Topics for conversation with a girl
Have you come this far and still don’t know what to say? I do not want to give you ready-made texts, I want to inspire your creativity.
It doesn’t really matter what you say as long as you are listening to the person and having a conversation in a relaxed atmosphere. You can also talk a little when you can’t think of anything. But don’t overdo it. It is best if you are entertaining and, for example, ask her interesting questions.
Listen carefully. Especially if you are not a very talkative person, let her talk. To do this, you need to ask questions that she will happily answer.
You could even be a little cocky and approach her with funny lines.Just keep in mind that a lot of people don’t actually line up. But you can also host a competition about who knows the worst landing spots!
So try to keep it easy and interesting!
😱 How to please a girl
- It is best to show a sense of humor and self-confidence.
- Be kind and upbeat.
- Listen carefully and tell exciting stories.
- Treat her with respect, but also demand respect.So don’t put her on a pedestal.
- Don’t brag or let her down.
- Tease her a little.
If you want to know more about this topic, here are two great articles that will surely help you a lot with this topic:
😏 How to tease a girl
If you want to win her heart, teasing someone is quite simple and necessary. But don’t confuse teasing with insult! When teased, it is imperceptible, and the insult is just despicable.The line is often good, but very important.
The only problem with teasing is that it is situational. Thus, I cannot give you any real instructions. He just needs to remain playful, laid-back and not particularly offensive. If you’ve gone too far, you will probably notice it. Then bite the bullet and apologize. When you tease someone, you only point out that person’s innocent flaws.
✍️ October 1, 202090,000 Digital slaves in China. How games with girls turned into an industry / Habr
There are simps in America. From “simpleton,” the simpleton. They watch youtuber girls, streamers, tiktokers, instagram models, or just porn stars. All possible best qualities are projected onto them. And they dream of being next to their idol even for a minute. In the meantime, they will donate the last earned money. Or subscribe to OnlyFans to see at least some part of the body of their chosen one.
As a result, some well-known (in online circles) girls make fabulous money from simpletons.Porn star Mia Malkova recently bought a real castle. Instagram model Carina Kopf earned $ 1 million on the very first day after the release of her OnlyFans.
So, China also has this “sympathy”. Only in even more serious forms.
The country still has the largest gender inequality in the world. There are 20% fewer girls than boys. This means that you need to “sympathize” in order to be noticed even more strongly. Even ordinary girls with an online profile have their own “white knights”. It is not necessary to have a popular platform for this.
Moreover: people are willing to pay good money for some girl to just chat with them online. Or played a game. There is such a thing on the foreign Internet, but it has not yet entered the culture. And in China, these girls even have a name – they are called 陪 玩 (“peiwan”).
In recent years it has become a whole industry. If you are a girl and are even a little interested in games, it is foolish not to take the opportunity and not earn extra money from a hobby.
Customers are primarily found on Bixin, China’s leading marketplace for gamers.A girl can respond to one of the ads, or create her own gig. Peiwan without a reputation are somewhat similar to the girls from the ancient profession. For example, they walk into an online lounge (派 单 厅) and line up in front of a customer to take turns showing them their voice. Since the main thing here is in the audio chat, the gamer often chooses the interlocutor who, in his opinion, sounds the best.
Among gaming companions, in order not to remember names, it is customary to refer to their clients as “bosses” (老板).And they, in turn, call them 小 姐姐, “cuties.”
Girls receive from $ 3 per hour of playing together in Overwatch or from $ 5 per hour in League of Legends. The most successful Peiwans (with the best voices and flirting skills) receive up to $ 300 an hour, not counting gifts. This is 2-3 times more than the most experienced male trainers who can pump your skill. At the same time, no one seriously considers the services of female trainers, so even girls with a high rating usually find it easier to train their “cute” voice and work as peiwan.In total, 6 million gaming companions are currently registered on Bixin.
China is the world’s largest video game market. In 2020, the industry earned $ 43 billion. The final of the 2017 League of Legends Championship from Beijing was watched live by 106 million people. More than half of the population play video games (mostly on smartphones). Esports is not seen here as something niche: the government realizes that there is huge potential here. Last year, the esports division of the Chinese Ministry of Communications identified gaming companions as a profession.Now that you worked as a peiwan, you can put it on your resume.
Services such as Bixin have been publicly praised by state media for helping revitalize China’s economy after the pandemic, giving freelancers the opportunity to make money.
Being a peiwan is, of course, also difficult work. One girl from Xi’an told a forum that she only sleeps two hours a day and earns $ 1,544 a month to save up for her studies. Many people work at night – this way you can get a higher wage per hour.The influx of new playmates over the past two years has brought the average rate down to about $ 4 from $ 7.70. But for many Peiwans, it’s still easier than working as a cashier in a supermarket, a hotel administrator, a waiter, or a picker in a factory. In addition, the girls here can work remotely. And you don’t have to be pretty, or be able to take care of yourself.
As a result, Peiwan are mostly girls without higher education from villages or small towns where there are no other job opportunities.In 2020, Bixin attracted 2.2 million (!) Gaming companions from rural areas of China.
There are many reports of “bosses” sexually harassing their playmates. Last year, regulators in Shanghai even summoned Bixin executives to the carpet. They ordered to disable one social function that “harms the physical and mental health of minors,” and advised to improve the content moderation mechanism.
Almost all of the pictures of beautiful young women on Peiwan profiles are fakes.Girls are ashamed to show their real face. The key factor when choosing a companion is still the voice. Basically, the Chinese prefer a “girly” voice, clear and young. And since female companions get a lot more than their male counterparts, quite a few men use voice-changing software to sound like a girl. And then they sell their services.
The best Peiwans know how to be psychotherapists for their clients. They listen to their complaints, talk to them, comfort them, say how wonderful they are.It costs more than just playing. When the client “sits down”, the rate begins to grow, plus experienced girls begin to demand online gifts that can be transformed into real money.
Bixin does not allow users to share contact information, but the ban is easy to circumvent. Basically, girls give customers their direct data during the game – so as not to pay 20% of the site commission. But it certainly comes with risks, and online stalkers happen on a regular basis. Some even ask to come to her in the city so that they can communicate more closely.With a certain amount and level of trust, some agree.
When Peiwans play games for their own entertainment (which is rare), they always try to play with other girls. They say they are used to the fact that men do not know how to respect boundaries.
“There are two types of bosses,” says one of the peiwans. “Either they suck up to girls, or they openly hate all women. At the same time, they all live in a digital world, and consider it more important than the real one. “The girl says she is embarrassed when friends find out what she is doing. “They picture me as a waitress in a bunny suit serving drinks for men. But the difference is that waitresses are paid a lot less. ”
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The game “Girls in uniform” was held in the Stupa center “Armeets”
The Yunarmeyskaya military-patriotic game “Girls in epaulettes” was held in the center of civil and patriotic education “Armeets”. 6 teams, consisting exclusively of girls, competed in military applied disciplines. At the beginning of the competition, the participants were congratulated by the deputy chairman of the committee for culture and youth policy Oksana Shishkova and the chairman of the Stupinsky branch of the All-Russian public organization of veterans “Combat Brotherhood”, deputy of the council of deputies of the district Igor Koltygin.
As the chief of staff of the local branch of the All-Russian military-patriotic public movement Yunarmiya Viktor Nikiforuk said, the game had six stages: drill, imitation rifle shooting, putting on the OZK, outfitting the store, disassembling and assembling the Makarov pistol and Kalashnikov assault rifle. Out of 6 teams, 3 – “Zvezda”, “Junior” and “Armeets”, represented the center, teams from Meshcherin, Tatarinov and Stupinskaya gymnasium №7 also performed. On the first day, teams competed in which at least one participant was over 13 years old, in the second there were three junior teams from schools No. 1, 2 and 3.
“If you look at these girls, they are older, morally older than their peers,” notes Nikiforuk. – Some have been practicing longer, others started not so long ago, but perseverance and team spirit prevail.
The shooting stage took place on a modern imitation shooting complex – as Viktor Nikiforuk said, “Armeec” bought a simulator for the youth soldiers, which is suitable for both exercises and competitions. The novelty allows you to practice shooting from a pistol, machine gun and rifle at different distances and in different weather conditions, and all the results are recorded.Nevertheless, at the competitions in “Armeyts” they plan to alternate the use of the complex and real shooting from air rifles.
The speed and quality of the girls’ performances were assessed by independent judges – the military personnel were impartial and distributed the prizes as follows: the Junior team took the third place, the Armeets team won the second place, and the Zvezda won the game. The teams were awarded with diplomas, “Zvezda” got the main prize – the cup, the organizers also noted the girls who showed the best results in certain disciplines.
A diploma for the fastest donning of a combined-arms protective kit was awarded to a member of the “Junior” team, tenth-grader Milana Chernenko from school №2.
– I have been studying for six months in the military-patriotic association “Zvezda”, – says the girl. – I liked that there is a connection with the army, after school I plan to enter the army academy and I am preparing for this. Classes are held three times a week, we go through all the stages that were today.When a sand-force was organized at our school, I became interested and eventually came to “Armeets”. Of all the activities, drill training attracts most of all – I command everyone on it! But seriously, everyone is in a neat, identical shape, moving smoothly – it looks very solid.
According to the results of the game, participants of the regional games “Girls in uniform”, which will be held in Podolsk, will be selected. The program there will be practically the same, the date of the game will be known later.
Source: http: // instupino.ru / novosti / molodezhnaya_sreda / igra-devushki-v-pogonah-proshla-v-stupinskom-center-armeec90,000 How to get your girlfriend interested in playing WoW with you / Archive
First of all, I don’t know what type of girl we will be dealing with, but my first advice to break the ice is to take part in what she loves but absolutely hates (for example, go shopping with her). After that, smiling sincerely, ask her if she can spend time with you doing what you like – just like you just spent time with her doing what she likes.You can lure her to the computer with candy and flowers.
Register a free trial so you can show her the world. Be sure to create a new character for yourself. This way, you will succeed in the game together – and it will be much more enjoyable than you will be in Elvin Forest and effortlessly arrange an Armageddian with your super-duper dressed up Maine. It will be a good test to complete the game together on the same level. It also shows her that you are caring enough and put your main character on the bench just to be with her.Trust me, if she understands it, it will mean something to her. It is also worth noting that your character must be male, this will support the idea that you are a couple, and she will like this idea. In addition, your character must be of the same race as her character to demonstrate your compatibility. Don’t forget to try to make your character attractive if you can. Well, it will also help a lot if your class is hybrid (heal, tank, dps), since in battle it can be more useful.After all, your girlfriend is new to this huge world, and at first she cannot be a sufficiently effective member of the group. Being able to work for two will help you be a more successful group. Failure is not a funny thing, but sometimes it is needed to show a girl that victory is not guaranteed and that some effort must be made to win. Become an addition to her character – if she is a damage dealer, then you be a tank and protect her – she will definitely like it. If she chooses a tank, be a healer, if she chooses a heal, you are a damage dealer, and so on.
When creating a character, show her that she can make it to her liking – change her hairstyle, hair color, earrings, eyes … Girls of all ages love to play dress up. Therefore, as soon as she creates her Alter Ego, go to your main character and send her a small amount of money, then take her to the nearest clothing seller or auction so that she can buy several non-level dresses for trying on (this is provided that she chose a female character, although most girls do just that).After trying on, show her a hairdresser in town and I’m sure after seeing more choice of character customization, she’ll be stuck there for a while longer – don’t rush her.
The small amount of gold that you sent her will quickly run out – and she will ask you for more. And you tell her that there is a way to earn it yourself, completing simple tasks. Now is the time to show what her character is capable of. Be patient. She probably has no idea about WoW, let alone all the MMORPGs.Think back to yourself when you abandoned one online game and switched to another. Was the interface incomprehensible and alien? Now imagine a feeling 1000 times worse and you will understand how she feels. Make it the simplest interface by removing all additional buttons and addons. Playing with a simple and not cluttered interface, your girlfriend will get more pleasure from the game without getting confused in it.
Complete tasks together and start earning more money. Show her how to behave in battle while praising her every accomplishment.Be patient. Also, don’t push her into continuous nerdiness for hours. If you get even one hour from her, then it will already be a great achievement. After that, do not forget to thank her for playing with you, and say about a huge amount of positive emotions. After leaving the game, she will definitely think about it. She will be curious – “What next? What skills can I get? When can I clean the face of the worst monster? What are dungeons?” If you play further and do not push her to play, then you will notice that the girl will come back and ask questions about it, wanting to know more.It will be appropriate to ask her from time to time if she is interested in playing together a little more, about 30 minutes. Remember to mention that this will mean a lot to you.
At this stage, most of the girls are already plunging headlong into this wonderful fantasy world. But if you still haven’t succeeded, it’s time to hit with “heavy artillery”. The method, of course, is “sure”, but a little dangerous.
If your guild has a ventrilo or similar thing for communication, use external speakers instead of headphones when communicating so that your girlfriend can hear other girls in the guild speak.This will kill two birds with one stone: firstly, you will show her that other girls play WoW (by the way, more girls play in WoW than in any other MMORPG) and secondly, she will feel jealousy and patronage from – because you are in the game with other girls – she will want to protect her property, or at least hope that she does. Show Hidden Text
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PS. In the end, you may or may not be successful.Either way, enjoy WoW, but also enjoy real life – and don’t let WoW ruin important feelings. You’re lucky if your girlfriend plays with you. But I’m sure that if you don’t achieve this, you will love her the same way – and rightly so.
On this I take my leave and wish you good luck!
The military-patriotic game “Girls in uniform” united 63 teams from the Moscow region
In the city district of Podolsk on September 26, a military-patriotic game “Girls in uniform” was held, dedicated to the 79th anniversary of the feat of Podolsk cadets.
“The game brought together over 450 best participants of the military-patriotic organizations of the Moscow region from more than 30 cities in the Moscow region,” said Alexander Legkov, chief of staff of the regional branch of the UNARMIA public movement in the Moscow region.
During the day, the girls showed skills and skills, honed in training, in nine diverse competitions. The tests required them to be in good physical shape, endurance, the ability to work together in a team, knowledge of weapons, military ranks and the history of Russia.
“We have been preparing for this day with the whole team for a very long time. Unfortunately, most military sports games only involve boys. And when last year we were offered to take part in the game “Girls in uniform”, we agreed without hesitation. Each time the tasks become more interesting. It is especially valuable that in the game we can give a head start to young men and prove that girls are far from the weak half of humanity. Many thanks to the organizers, we hope that next year we will again meet with the best girls of the Moscow region’s youth movement, ”said Alexandra Smyslova, a participant of the competition from the Kolomna urban district.
The military-patriotic game “Girls in uniform” is part of a series of patriotic games of the Moscow region. It is organized by the Main Directorate of Social Communications of the Moscow Region.
Minister of Social Communications Yekaterina Shvelidze notes: “For the second year, we have been organizing a game for the members of the youth army and military-patriotic detachments of the Moscow region and we see that interest in it is growing: if last year 52 teams competed, then this is already 63. Besides, the girls are so well prepared, that it is not easy for the judges to identify the best: the gap in points is minimal.This time we congratulate the girls from the “Guard” squadron with an unconditional victory. The second team place was shared by the “Fortress” detachment of the Mozhaisky urban district and “Budimir” from Podolsk, the third – the girls of the “Zastava” detachment from the Leninsky urban district, the “Scouts” from Domodedovo and again the Podolsk “Memory” detachment.